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SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-04-16 17:35:31
April 16 2016 08:58 GMT
#1


trigger warning: saccharine + lack of caps

you were warned

don't say i didn't warn you

u might get jealous

u might get disgusted at the suggestion that any of this could make u jealous

if you don't like this kind of thing, it's gonna make you cringe hard

and my impression is that most people don't like this kind of thing

wonder what that says about most people

jk im not judgmental u do u boo

i know u can have a love without saying these things

i dont think one way is better than the other

this is just my life

a lot of these things that are said arent literally true but im an autist and i got past that so maybe u can too

i'm pretty sure we're ridiculous outliers for saying some of these things to each other every day...

things anna and i tell each other every day

spontaneously, or following particularly nice moments:
"i love you"
"thank you"
"you're so beautiful"
"you're so sweet"
"i can't believe you're mine"
"i can't believe i'm yours"
"my darling/sweetheart/precious/wife" "(my darling/sweetheart/precious/husband)"
there's other epithets but those are the 4 most common
"will you marry me?" ("of course, i've always wanted to")
"will you be with me forever?" ("forever.")
"you're my everything"
"you make me so happy"

upon one of us waking up or after a period of separation longer than ~20 minutes:
"(you're back!) i missed you" ("i missed you too" "thank you i love you" etc)

spontaneously, or following particularly harrowing moments (not literally every day, thankfully):
"i'm sorry"
"i'm so sorry"
"i'll do better next time"
"it wont happen again"
"i love you"
"can we please just hug?"
"hug me"
"i dont deserve you" ("you do")
"thank you"
"things will get better"
"everything will be wonderful"
"everything is wonderful"
"please believe me"
"i believe you"
"ill always love you"

im working on getting rid of the necessity of this category
eventually it loops back into the nicer ones

we're both really emotional people. we both have lots of issues that can actually make it worse for each other sometimes. at the end of every day though, we still think we can make it, we think can become better people, which i think makes us fundamentally decent people. we want to contribute to the world in our unique ways. we understand each other better than anybody else, and we're still working to understand each other better. we're better together. if you cant stop from judging, that's fine... i admire you for being in such a position to. i'd like to be as good as you. i'm working on it. please believe in me.

thanks,

tuna

+ Show Spoiler +
did you notice how the intro was sensitive to the emotional response of the reader? its because i care deeply for some reason. that's how i am. oversensitivity is not a good thing. most oversensitive people become aware of this at some point. but people who have never known the struggle are so good at hurting us more unnecessarily... so please. don't hurt me. i'm trying to change. i am changing.

it really seems like you put her on a pedestal which is a mistake and not healthy imo

i rly dont put her on a pedestal. the "i dont deserve you" goes both ways sometimes.
she can be as culpable as me for some bad shit that goes down. it's a two way street all the time. sometimes i'm worse though, and sometimes i'm better.

irony is, is one thing that was annoying me through all this is that i felt everyone else was putting her on a pedestal when reading about my problems. just cuz im not spotlighting her problems doesnt mean they aren't there or significant

she would not have married me on pity alone... she's not a saint...

though since she's pretty, people seem predisposed to thinking she is? heh psychology

physical attractiveness is a gift and a curse and people like me who aren't physically attractive can never understand the full effect of being physically attractive. neither can the physically attractive people, even though they know some parts better. it takes two perspectives to actually compare well, and rarely are people both attractive and not attractive. in one regard, men are lucky for having their attractiveness to women depend more on personality and confidence, which isn't as common vice-versa.

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SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
April 16 2016 09:14 GMT
#2
honestly who just 1 stars this...

...

...

...

...

SRY U HATED IT
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SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
April 16 2016 09:14 GMT
#3
please stand up?!?!?!?!?!?
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SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
April 16 2016 09:15 GMT
#4
i mean i'll take it as training thank u for the trial
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goody153
Profile Joined April 2013
33371 Posts
April 16 2016 09:21 GMT
#5
"i can't believe you're mine"


one day i will say this phrase again

upon one of us waking up or after a period of separation longer than ~20 minutes:
"(you're back!) i missed you" ("i missed you too" "thank you i love you" etc)


ok this is pretty sweet
this is a quote
SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
April 16 2016 09:26 GMT
#6
yea we're ppl who can get touched by cliches weird world huh

we found each other
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SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-04-16 10:19:18
April 16 2016 09:51 GMT
#7
and my impression is that most people don't like this kind of thing

guess i was right and the haters r out in full force

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Slomo
Profile Joined November 2010
Germany5571 Posts
April 16 2016 10:25 GMT
#8
5/7 tuna.
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SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-04-16 10:35:24
April 16 2016 10:35 GMT
#9
if i could have a single one of the three 1/5 star raters thus far explain anything that would be vastly appreciated
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Skynx
Profile Joined January 2013
Turkey583 Posts
April 16 2016 14:07 GMT
#10
Man plz dont get banned
"When seagulls follow the troller, it is because they think sardines will be thrown into the sea. Thank you very much" - King Cantona | STX 4 eva
synapse
Profile Joined January 2009
China4966 Posts
April 16 2016 16:43 GMT
#11
ill 5 star u any day bby
:)
Spicy_Curry
Profile Joined March 2011
United States7411 Posts
April 16 2016 16:59 GMT
#12
I missed you tuna
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DucK-
Profile Joined January 2009
Singapore9506 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-04-16 17:19:25
April 16 2016 17:19 GMT
#13
Anyone annoyed by the lack of caps?
SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-04-16 17:43:26
April 16 2016 17:34 GMT
#14
Sorry, DucK-

I feel I've failed you as a fellow marine creature with stylishly capitalized letters.
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eieio
Profile Joined November 2009
United States12150 Posts
April 16 2016 23:50 GMT
#15
easy 5/5 honestly
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ASoo
Profile Joined November 2010
2422 Posts
April 17 2016 05:19 GMT
#16
On April 16 2016 17:58 SpiritoftheTunA wrote:
physical attractiveness is a gift and a curse and people like me who aren't physically attractive can never understand the full effect of being physically attractive. neither can the physically attractive people, even though they know some parts better. it takes two perspectives to actually compare well, and rarely are people both attractive and not attractive.

I've had the (probably not very common) experience of being both over the course of one lifetime. Like, sometimes I think that I'm just more psychologically healthy or have better self esteem these days, but then I look at pics of me in high school/early college, and it's like, "no, I was just really ugly when I was younger."

So, being in a position to directly compare the two, I can say with confidence that I prefer attractiveness.

Cute blog 5/5
SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Joined August 2006
United States14737 Posts
Last Edited: 2016-04-17 06:45:36
April 17 2016 06:44 GMT
#17
Like, sometimes I think that I'm just more psychologically healthy or have better self esteem these days, but then I look at pics of me in high school/early college, and it's like, "no, I was just really ugly when I was younger."

bet they're correlated :3

yea i think im more atttractive than i used to be, esp if i put some extra effort into grooming

i can probably test that theory by hitting on some girls sometime and seeing if i can get any dates

tho i should disclose to them before they fall too much in love that im married that'll be awkward

ethics in scientific experimentation =/

i definitely used to have self image problems which fucked with my self confidence which is honestly the actual biggest attractiveness factor how most girls judge guys

vicious cycle

thx for telling me about your ratings guys it really calms my raging neuroses; u dont know how much i appreciate it
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JoanneFraser
Profile Joined July 2020
United States1 Post
December 29 2020 11:35 GMT
#18
Oh, love these phrases!
AdCornish65
Profile Joined July 2020
United States1 Post
Last Edited: 2020-12-30 15:54:52
December 29 2020 15:14 GMT
#19
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rabidch
Profile Joined January 2010
United States9127 Posts
December 30 2020 03:51 GMT
#20
what a necro
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